Whenever you want to get a four-year old's attention you lean down, cup your hand over their ear, and whisper, "I want to tell you a secret." So lean in close because I want to tell you a secret. I don't know why this is a secret but it seems to be and I want to change that. The secret is "pessary." P E S S A R Y. If you know what I'm talking about you don't need to listen to this message. If you already know what a pessary is, please spread the word. My experience has been that my friends and relatives don't know what a pessary is. That includes my 90-year old mother and my 60-plus year old friends. You can think of this as a public service announcement.